This a great question. I really depends on the Dom and standards they set, but I will dive into my sessions. Initially, I expect two things. (1) You show up on time. I cannot stress how much it pisses me when a boy isn’t there when he is suppose to be there. Plan ahead. Get yourself together. Don’t waste my time. (2) Be clean/freshly showered and wearing what you are instructed to wear. I don’t ask for elaborate wardrobes, but when I tell you wear your jock, I expect you to remember a be wearing it. For a first session, I reinforce this by clearly reminding a boy that he will be punished if he fails to meet these simple expectations.
Most of my first time sessions follow a simply protocol. I invite the boy in. We sit and talk for a moment. It is a chance to size up each other and get comfortable. I also find that investing that small amount of time really helps a session run more smoothly. Once things feel comfort, I ask the boy, “are you ready to begin?”
Then we cover the rules. (1) He is to refer to me as Sir. (2) If he is feeling uncomfortable or scared, he is tell me. I don’t believe in safe words. If I ever get to the point where a safe word is needed, then I have failed as a Dom. Communication is key. I give the boy a chance to reiterate any limits that he has not previously shared with me, and I remind him that he will be pushed within these bounds.
To the heart of your question, we begin with a simple inspection. One of my favorite moments. He strips for me. Hands behind his head. Legs spread. I circle his body (while completely dressed) and inspect his body. A boy shows him submission by responding to me. I love to hold a boy’s balls in my hand for the first time. He knows that he is mine for as long as I want. That first moment when he realizes he is my play thing, this is the perfect moment of submission.
Then I order him to his knees and ask, “Are ready to show me how much of good boy you are?”
I couldn’t have put this any better.
This is perfect.